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Nurmina Abdul<\/p>\n

<\/em>I struggled with holding a pencil in preschool. While my classmates raced out of our makeshift classroom, I was left behind, clutching my pencil as if my life depended on it when it should be the pencil depending on me to guide it across the paper. My concerned and, at the same time, stressed-out teacher would let me do \u201cClose-Open Hands\u201d Exercises to help work my right hand\u2019s control muscles and allow me to grasp a pencil without assistance. At home, my mother would teach me how to make du\u2019a<\/em> by letting me imitate how she lifted her hands, asking for the Almighty\u2019s blessings. I remember these not because my handwriting had turned appealing or I became the best in making du\u2019as<\/em> but because my palms would seize my memories and ideas, ultimately processing them through my attempts at writing.<\/p>\n

As a kid, I quietly enjoyed reading in corners. But growing up, soaked in an irretrievable rush to build a dream, I considered writing more seriously. The people around me, however, don\u2019t seem to take me seriously each time I tell them I\u2019m taking up creative writing. What more if they knew I couldn\u2019t hold a pencil properly as a kid? Some of my relatives and acquaintances would confuse my course with Education major in English: They see the two disciplines as identical. If they were birds, they\u2019re of the same feathers. Both struggle to find a nest to rest in. Though teaching is noble, and I might dive into it, I don\u2019t think it\u2019s fair to continually mistake something for something else.<\/p>\n

In seventh grade, I learned a narrative could get amplified twice as others, especially when the other is perceived lightly. I remember first hearing the outcome of SAF 44\u2019s OPLAN exodus in Mamasapano, Maguindanao, through my computer teacher, who prayed for the eternal repose of the slain forces and for protection against \u201cbandits\u201d who, according to him, wanted to take over the land of promise. In some way, he tried choosing his words carefully. Later, I\u2019ll discover that at least seven civilians were dead, including a five-year-old and a farmer. While I\u2019m far from competing about whose pain is more painful, maybe it\u2019s worth saying that no one has a monopoly on suffering. I refuse to be convinced that someone wakes up waiting to be killed in their own home. Perhaps my classmates and teacher have forgotten the scenario because I would wish the same. Yet, the daunting task of writing, I have to feel, I have to remember, I have to retell.<\/p>\n

A quick Google search of words synonymous with \u201cprocess\u201d would include procedure, operation, action, activity, undertaking, proceeding, development, course, measure, and means, to name some. I thought my writing \u201cprocess\u201d included opening and closing my hands like what I did in preschool. The more I practice, the better I\u2019ll be. The tighter I hold onto narratives, the better. But I realize that as I learned to hold pencils and keep memoirs, I struggled to let go, too. There are times that I refuse to write because of such reasons.<\/p>\n

My mother told me I should put my trust in God, especially regarding things outside my control. Indeed, it\u2019s convenient to let the higher being take care of those beyond our capabilities. Yet, I\u2019m not immune to the pressure. I admit to seeing writing as a chance to navigate through my Maguindanaon identity. Growing up, I struggled a lot with representation. I wondered why Bangsamoro history is obliterated in most history books while our clothing, food, language, and customs are appropriated. I wonder why Muslims get asked to explain Bin Laden\u2019s actions when I don\u2019t recall any credits for Rumi\u2019s brilliance. I find it extra challenging to process the necessity to put frequent efforts into proving I\u2019m not a threat to anyone by merely existing or, for that matter, writing. Probably, my mother was right to say I must relinquish what I can\u2019t control.<\/p>\n

Writing a short story involving Maguindanaon characters unveiled my internalized prejudice against my fellows. \u201cWhy did you kill off the character?\u201d My lecturer asked in an afternoon Fiction I Workshop. The class was curious about the ending of my draft. They couldn\u2019t wrap their heads around the death of the male protagonist turned combatant. It didn\u2019t help that he was murdered by his fiancee, who didn\u2019t earn the readers\u2019 trust that she got in her the ability to kill. Looking back, I assumed that erasing my character was an easy shortcut to tie up the story. Perhaps a part of me didn\u2019t yet have the full courage to defend my choice to write about arranged marriages and armed struggle. I failed to distinguish constructive self-criticism from pure contempt in writing about my people. I\u2019m quite sure developing a sense of inferiority doesn\u2019t happen overnight. I suppose I\u2019m not alone in my experiences either. However, I consider it a personal battle that I must overcome. Regardless, on that afternoon, I gave everyone equally bad and lazy answers via Google Meet.<\/p>\n

Mostly now, I imagine Moro writers who came before me had also searched for their specific voices and inspirations and had to learn and unlearn many things in their writing process and beyond throughout their journey. I find solace in thinking of fellow beginning Moro writers out there likewise trying. What\u2019s left for us, I guess, is the boldness to keep on writing. I know I learned to hold a pencil to write stories. I believe I have an axon of assertions \u2014 even when pulled away, impulses.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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